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Mug shot Tuesday. Turn me on mug. No need to explain that one. I was working on my research about what turn men on. I really enjoyed doing it. I didn’t get many replies so I probably should call it “what turn some of the men I know (virtually) on”. I wasn’t sure if I should wait some more time and try to get more responses, look for some other answers online or just work with what I had.
I chose to work with what I had and see if I can come up with something while I’m writing. I’m not a planner so let’s see what I can find.

First of all, I want to clarify something.
My dear Twin wrote this:

I have to agree with her on the part that this is the perfect job for me. I love it. I could write every day about sex and love and relationships. Even if my experiences are not the best ones, I still have a lot to say.

About the ‘always wanting and looking for sex’ part. THAT’S NOT TRUE!! I’m sleeping sometimes.

And the part: ‘I haven’t seen many guys walk away from a pretty woman’. My dad told me I was pretty a couple of days ago but ok, he’s my dad so I won’t count myself as pretty but I can count MANY men walking away from me.

Now that we are clear about that, I can continue. I put my glasses on so I can make this research look a bit more serious (and see the words on the screen).

It’s said that men are more visual than women. That is, they get turned on by an image, and with image I mean ‘something they are seeing’.
But I was really surprised that only a few of the men actually admitted that.
I’ll paste all the screenshots. I tried to circle in red the answers so you don’t have to read too much. What’s underlined in green is what turns on one of my (female) followers. And I agree with her. But I’ll leave that for a future post.

It was surprising to know what women think and what men said that actually turn them on.

Women said these things turn men on:

If I make a list with everything mentioned above, we have:

-porn
-smarmy comments
-things they can’t have
-overtly sexy
-subtle (in opposite to overtly sexy)
-smart women
-women that can make men laugh
-any woman
-everything female
-confident woman
-the ass
-big boobs
-nice smile
-drunk (or close)
-long hair

And these are the things that men said:

If I make a list:

-window washing (wet t-shirt)
-boobs
-anything
-spanking
-thoughtful women
-women who can hold a conversation
-role playing
-stockings
-smart women
-women who are not shy between the sheets

I also got these responses below:

What can I conclude?

What we women think that turn men on is not so accurate. It seems that men are a bit more complex.
They don’t get turn on by everything female and what probably turned a man on when he was 25 is completely different from what turns him on today, 15 years later.

I also think that some of the men who answered the question imagined themselves in a particular moment and gave the answer according to that.
For example:

-smart women
-women who can hold a conversation
-thoughtful women

I can say that those men didn’t picture any particular woman when they answered. So if they could choose, they would probably pay more attention to the kind of women mentioned above.

Answers like:

-role playing
-stockings
-wet t-shirts
-spanking
-not shy between the sheets

Those men were probably thinking about someone in particular. Like once they have the woman, those are the things that turn them on.

None of the men mentioned porn. Strange? Not really if you think for a bit why men like porn, and when.

Getting the responses about ‘depends on the situation and the person’ and also what turns at least of one of the men off, made me smile.

-the lack of mutual attraction
-the wrong place
-bad timing

Men and women are not so different after all. It seems that we are all looking for the same things and once we found them, we can concentrate in what turns us on in that particular person.

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I hope my research wasn’t too vague and please let me know if you disagree.

~ by DotedOn on May 26, 2015.