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Sunday. It’s quite dark today but not really cold. All the trees (4 in total) in my garden, lost their leaves. It doesn’t look sad at all because all around there are pines and they are always green. And the leafless trees make my living much brighter.
I want to apologize for not reading any of your blogs or replying to the comments yet. I feel kind of guilty doing that while my kids are here. So I’ll try to catch up later or tomorrow while they are at school.
A couple of days ago, I found an article about three compatibility factors for a successful marriage. Among all the crap I read on the subject, I have to admit that this one, in my opinion, was pretty accurate.
I’ll read it again and I’ll write about it this week.
I’m still trying to find out why all my previous relationships didn’t succeed. At one point I had to ask myself if the problem was me or if there was something else. I have to admit I have some issues but I believe that the main problem was always that we were not really compatible or that our points of view in the different matters were not the same.
All this reinforces my idea that I need someone like me. A best friend, a lover. Someone whose values are like mine. I don’t want anymore to get tired of someone… Or even worse, someone getting tired of me.
Life is short. Find the person who’ll make you happy EVERY DAY of the rest of your life.
Reblogged this on SURVIVORS BLOG HERE.
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DotedOn said this on November 8, 2015 at 12:00 pm |
Enjoy your day dear β€ π
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Semra Polat said this on November 8, 2015 at 12:10 pm |
You too! β€
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DotedOn said this on November 9, 2015 at 12:15 pm |
I have also wondered why all my past relationships have not lasted. Sometimes, I think it was me (I do have manic depression which is tricky sometimes.) I do have issues that I unfortunately carry around with me. But, in the end, I think you are right; it is all a matter of compatibility. I am not to blame and the other party is not to blame. Sometimes people just change in different directions.
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songtothesirens said this on November 8, 2015 at 1:51 pm |
Love should be easy, right? π
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DotedOn said this on November 9, 2015 at 12:36 pm |
You can’t really dwell on why past relationships didn’t succeed. It’s important not to blame yourself and look forward to new ones.
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Marissa Bergen said this on November 8, 2015 at 3:48 pm |
I’m always looking forward… I just HATE the wait π
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DotedOn said this on November 9, 2015 at 12:39 pm |
Me too!
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Marissa Bergen said this on November 9, 2015 at 8:01 pm
I have heard it said that the one thing that attracts you to a person will become the one thing that annoys you the most. A catch-22 for sure, and honestly, I can say there is a lot of truth in that. For instance, you like a guy because he is passionate and caring, but you might come to hate that about him because he is passionate and caring toward a lot of other people and not just you. Granted, just my $0.02.
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R. Todd said this on November 9, 2015 at 10:23 pm |
Hahahaha π
I never thought of that!
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DotedOn said this on November 9, 2015 at 10:38 pm |
Finding someone who is compatible with us is important but not as easy as it sounds π
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faburlifekhloe said this on November 11, 2015 at 6:23 am |
It’s freaking difficult! π
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DotedOn said this on November 11, 2015 at 10:02 pm |
I agree. Life is too short to stay in an unhappy marriage, or relationship. Its about living, finding the person you think is your soulmate, and who your most compatible with. Trial and error makes that happen eventually, we hope. XX
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manyofus1980 said this on November 11, 2015 at 12:20 pm |
I don’t want to try anymore! I want my soulmate here NOW! π
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DotedOn said this on November 11, 2015 at 10:06 pm |