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Mug shot Tuesday. Stay Passionate. You can stay passionate if you are originally passionate. But what happens when you are not? How can you stay doing something or behaving in a way that you have no idea how it is or how it feels?

I received a complaint. Honestly, I’m not sure if I can call it a complaint or what. It was something like this: “Men are passionate. So why is it that our wives think that we are horndogs?”

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“Do you think we are always horny because we want to hug our women while they’re cooking?” “Do you think we are perverts for wanting to caress our women?” “Do you think that by doing any of the things mentioned above we are ALL the time thinking about sex??”

If I had a dollar for every time I heard something like that, I’d probably have about $5 dollars now. But that is because I spoke only with 5 married men.

My opinion won’t be very objective because my ex didn’t want to have sex with me so the only thing that I could think of is: THOSE WOMEN ARE INSANE!!

Why? Why? WHY a woman could think that she married a pervert because her man wants to compliment her and hug her and make her feel like she’s the only woman in the universe? Why a woman thinks that her man kisses her or hugs her with the only intention of having sex? Is that a cultural thing? Is that a religious thing? How did all this crap get started? Did some frigid woman spread the word saying that having sex more than once a month was going to take you to hell? I wish I could meet that woman.
And another thing… That once a month that you decide to have sex with your husband, could you at least put some effort and make your man feel like you wanted to do it instead of making him feel like it was your duty? “Let’s get it done and over with”.

Now, who’s wrong here, those women or me? I was thinking about it for a very long time and I still don’t get it. You have lust and you have love. If your husband wants to hold your hand while you are watching a movie and you think that HE’S ALWAYS THINKING ABOUT SEX, then your mind is more twisted than mine. Do you even love that man? If you do, why would you call him horndog? He’s only passionate and he loves you and that’s his way to show that to you. So if you think that he’s always horny and every time he approaches you, you reject him, don’t cry when he finds another woman who appreciates him just the way he is.

I read a book long ago saying that women knew exactly how long to wait to have sex with their husbands before they started considering cheating. Pathetic… Mean women. How long do you think your man will stay satisfied with the single bone you throw him every couple of months? What about if he discovers that he could get a whole meal somewhere else?

The line between love and lust is very thin and I personally think that you need both things in your relationship.
When you don’t get love you start craving it. Every single person who does something nice to you becomes precious in your eyes. If you are the romantic type, you’ll probably fall in love with the first person who shows they care.
When there is no lust you wonder what’s wrong with you. And you keep wondering for a very long time until you decide to see who’s wrong. Is it me? Am I that repulsive that not even my wife/husband wants me? And the chance is big that you want to prove yourself if you still got it and you will start flirting with everyone because you need to know if you can still attract someone else.
When you are in a relationship and you don’t have lust and love, what’s left?

And one more thing: If you think that I belong to the “Wet Panties Movement” because I think this way, so be it.
I’m a proud member. I’ll stay passionate.


~ by DotedOn on December 1, 2015.

31 Responses to “462”

  1. Reblogged this on SURVIVORS BLOG HERE.


  2. I agree. Love and lust are both essential in any relationship. I’m with you on that! And you passion on this subject shines! XX

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  3. I totally agree!!!

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  4. There’s nothing quite unromantic as when your partner says ‘are you done yet?” πŸ˜€

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  5. totally agree with you πŸ˜€

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  6. Yeah, I don’t know. Men definitely have sex on their mind a lot but it doesn’t mean they don’t think of other things too. I don’t think we need to blame men for being horny, as long as they are not womanizers.

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  7. I think both are important. I sometimes like sex without love, but wouldn’t want to experience love without the sex!

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  8. “wet panties movement”…priceless.

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  9. Very true, love ad lust are definitely a must in a relationship and they are what keep a relationship healthy! πŸ™‚

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  10. Finally someone that thinks just like me! In what other way a person could show their love? Do that women think the same way when a friend (boy or girl) hugs or caresses them? A relationship without sex doesn’t work, as it doesn’t without love.
    And sex once per month?! I must be a pervert! People that love each other don’t mind having sex with one another and aren’t counting either. πŸ˜€
    I’m joining your ‘wet panties movement’!

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    • Welcome to the movement!
      I’m glad you think like me πŸ™‚
      I don’t understand those women, for sure they think we are perverts… fine with me!! πŸ™‚


  11. Not sure lust is the right word, but I agree with what you are saying. Passion, desire, and love melding together into a physical aspect… ok, fine. Lust.

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  12. […] long ago I wrote about how mad I was with those women who don’t take good care of their men. The kind of women who think that their men are perverts because when they try to show them they […]


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