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Monday. Yesterday afternoon after writing my post, I was peacefully watching TV and deciding if I wanted to bake something sweet or not because I was still craving chocolate when I got an e-mail from my friend Pia. On the subject said: “Valentine’s Present”
She wrote: “You said you wanted chocolate. There you go. I attached the picture of the delivery guy so you don’t get confused”
She added: “I’m also sending you a bouquet of flowers with another delivery guy”.
Thank you, Pia!
What a shame that I could only eat those chocolates with my eyes!
A bit later I got a text from my ex saying: “I’m on the way to your house to pick a book for your son”.
After cursing for about 3 minutes, I could reply: “Why?”
“He asked me to”
“And where is him?”
“At home”
I was fuming… I could only ask: “How long would you take to be here?”
“15 minutes”.
More and more cursing because he didn’t ask me if it was OK to come here. He just decided that I wasn’t doing anything and he could drop by. The distance between his house and mine is 35 minutes by car, so I was infuriated.
When he got here I said “Hi” and gave him the book. He walked to the passenger seat, opened the door, took a plant and said:
“This is from five persons who love you very much”
“Come on! If it’s really from them, why didn’t you let them give it to me tomorrow? I don’t like this.” I said.
“Don’t be so hard”
“You are doing everything wrong!” I was really pissed at him, specially when he started smiling, took a wrapped package and said:
“And this is from someone who wants you to get sweet”.
“I really don’t like this” I said, when I was actually thinking “F#$K YOU!”.
He didn’t give a crap, gave me the package, got in the car and left.
My afternoon was dark after that. It kept snowing and the sight of his gift made me quite mad. Hours passed and it didn’t get much better so sometime after midnight I decided to unwrap the package and eat the stupid chocolate bar.
Please, don’t tell me “at least you got the chocolate you wanted”.
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DotedOn said this on February 15, 2016 at 11:02 am |
I didn’t do much for my day as I’m single, but I have a feeling that will change in the future. I’m sure many people will be grateful to you for those raunchy pictures on here.
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vinnieh said this on February 15, 2016 at 11:34 am |
I hope that situation change in the near future for the both of us! 🙂
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DotedOn said this on February 15, 2016 at 8:48 pm |
I have a feeling it will change.
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vinnieh said this on February 16, 2016 at 8:57 am
All my fingers are crossed 🙂
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DotedOn said this on February 18, 2016 at 7:26 pm
I’m sure it will change. And in regards to the images of those guys, it’s good to see discussion in the comments that they look quite fake and too polished. No one looks like that.
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vinnieh said this on February 18, 2016 at 7:38 pm
I don’t like them for sure… Real men are hotter 🙂
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DotedOn said this on February 18, 2016 at 7:47 pm
I don’t see the point as a guy in making myself look like that. I’m sure ladies like me just the way I am.
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vinnieh said this on February 18, 2016 at 7:57 pm
Exactly! 🙂
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DotedOn said this on February 18, 2016 at 7:57 pm
And I don’t need abs like that, I get enough compliments on my butt.
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vinnieh said this on February 18, 2016 at 7:58 pm
That’s nice! 🙂
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DotedOn said this on February 18, 2016 at 7:59 pm
People say it’s my best feature.
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vinnieh said this on February 18, 2016 at 8:00 pm
You are very lucky. It’s always nice to squeeze a cute ass 😀
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DotedOn said this on February 19, 2016 at 6:03 pm
Well I never used to think much of my ass, but people seem to like it.
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vinnieh said this on February 19, 2016 at 6:04 pm
But even if they do look like that, who the hell wants a conceited, over-built guy? I find them truly abhorrent. This is the male version of Playboy and that’s pretty damn sickening, too.
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writersideup said this on February 18, 2016 at 8:10 pm
I am nowhere near as muscular as these guys nor do I want to be. I’m happy being me and I will never change the way I look for someone or because someone says I should.
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vinnieh said this on February 18, 2016 at 8:12 pm
And that’s the way it should be! 🙂
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DotedOn said this on February 19, 2016 at 6:12 pm
I’m fine being me.
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vinnieh said this on February 19, 2016 at 6:14 pm
I like real men! (And for me those are the ones who don’t need to show themselves for someone else to buy them) 🙂
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DotedOn said this on February 19, 2016 at 6:11 pm
As it should be! 😀
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writersideup said this on February 18, 2016 at 11:30 pm
See, this is another reason I really don’t like holidays, in general. Everything is FORCED. The way I see this is largely that these gifts were probably meant as something you’d appreciate on a day you were expecting them (and more) and the reason they were delivered yesterday instead of today is because yesterday was THE “Valentine’s Day” so you HAVE to give your gifts and “show your love” on that specific day.
You and your ex have developed such deep-seated issues that they are always simmering under the surface, and it only takes one thing to make them boil over, and sometimes (I know you don’t want to hear this), there may be misunderstanding. Preconceptions and assumptions of things that are never cleared up create problems that are impossible to get past 😦 He may be an a**hole, but it’s possible there are some things he does that aren’t initially intended the way your reactions, then his reactions to yours, end up making them. He’s not someone you want a Valentine from, for sure, but in his mind I don’t think he was seeing it as romantic. Who knows? Maybe he thought it was funny. I’m just sorry you had a bad day 😦
P.S. I realize a portion of women enjoy these, but these “studs” do absolutely nothing for me, to be honest lol I can’t stand flaunty people/models/whoever. Hell, I couldn’t stand when we went to see the Chippendales for my sister-in-law’s bachelorette “party” 30+ years ago. All of it turns me off lol
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writersideup said this on February 15, 2016 at 3:57 pm |
Donna, I was pissed because in over 15 years he never said anything or give me anything (not even a kiss). Now that I left him, he comes with all these things and I really feel like kicking his balls. 🙂
And those pictures are awful! Real men don’t do that (and if they do, it’s behind closed doors!!). My friend just wanted me to laugh 😀
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DotedOn said this on February 15, 2016 at 8:50 pm |
OK, totally get it 🙂
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writersideup said this on February 16, 2016 at 5:24 am
Paola so heartening to hear you and Donna say these hunky studs do nothing for you both preferring real men instead, lol I’m a real man. I guess all I could add is it seems nice your ex is making an effort but then 15 years is a lot of years to make up for. x
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XandrewX said this on February 16, 2016 at 5:06 pm
Nothing turns me off more than to see those lycra slips with the bulk moving 😀
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DotedOn said this on February 18, 2016 at 7:26 pm
😀 and here’s me thinking all these years ladies loved the site of his ‘bulging bits’ on show!
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XandrewX said this on February 18, 2016 at 7:47 pm
No way!! It’s just for the fun… 😀
I’d never date one of those male oily dolls 🙂
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DotedOn said this on February 18, 2016 at 7:48 pm
Likewise really supermodel babes are ok but I love ladies all body shapes, saggy boobs are fabulous I could get so much in my mouth!
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XandrewX said this on February 18, 2016 at 7:51 pm
Hahahahaha 🙂
Only if they are not so big 😀
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DotedOn said this on February 18, 2016 at 7:54 pm
I know you are a 😉 big girl I could come round and try one, trouble is we don’t live in the same country!!!
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XandrewX said this on February 19, 2016 at 2:57 pm
Hahahahaha 😀
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DotedOn said this on February 19, 2016 at 6:17 pm
I disagree, Paola 😉 And I would add even more to this delightful conversation (you’re a gem, Andrew!), but won’t! lol
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writersideup said this on February 18, 2016 at 8:06 pm
Donna, you have no idea how many times I had to read the comments to understand in which thing you disagree 😀
(Do you think that the bigger the boobs the more can get in a mouth? Now I believe I only have had small mouthed men experiences 😀 )
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DotedOn said this on February 19, 2016 at 6:10 pm
lol, yeah, the comments are hard to follow! What I meant was soft (saggy, whatever), big boobs are more “malleable” therefore allowing for a bigger variety of how to play with them 🙂 And I honestly can’t believe I’m having these type conversations on the internet! lol
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writersideup said this on February 19, 2016 at 7:51 pm
I’m glad you do, Donna! It’s fun 🙂
I enjoy your comments very much! Thank you! 🙂
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DotedOn said this on February 21, 2016 at 1:20 pm
I take it you didn’t love Magic Mike then,
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vinnieh said this on February 18, 2016 at 8:22 pm |
Hmmm….don’t know who Magic Mike is! lol
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writersideup said this on February 18, 2016 at 11:31 pm
It’s a movie about male strippers.
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vinnieh said this on February 19, 2016 at 8:39 am
Oh! Well, I can tell you, I’d be much more likely to vomit! 😀
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writersideup said this on February 19, 2016 at 7:53 pm
I believe that many ladies went wild for the movie and its sequel.
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vinnieh said this on February 19, 2016 at 8:19 pm
Yeah, probably the same type women who were screaming at the Chippendale strippers, dying to get a kiss when they came around through the audience. Like I said: Vomitville!
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writersideup said this on February 19, 2016 at 9:51 pm
Well, I won’t say you got the chocolate you wanted, because it would only be half true. It’s chocolate, but not the chocolate you wanted. I sympathize with you, it can be infuriating when someone just tramples over you because they think they have the right (or worse, just don’t care).
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R. Todd said this on February 15, 2016 at 9:20 pm |
That’s the perfect word, infuriating! 🙂
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DotedOn said this on February 18, 2016 at 7:25 pm |
I do attempt to put the right word with the write feeling (ha.. see, I spelled it wrong on purpose).
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R. Todd said this on February 18, 2016 at 8:00 pm
Hahahaha 🙂
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DotedOn said this on February 19, 2016 at 6:03 pm
🙂
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lookingforthelightblog.wordpress.com said this on February 17, 2016 at 10:47 pm |
I must say this post has generated a great response of people saying that overly groomed people just don’t do it for them.
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vinnieh said this on February 19, 2016 at 6:09 pm |
For sure, not my taste. I like a man who spends 10 seconds looking at himself in the mirror 🙂
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DotedOn said this on February 19, 2016 at 6:19 pm |
Haha, while I take pride in the way I look, I don’t spend hours in front of the mirror. I don’t see the point.
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vinnieh said this on February 19, 2016 at 6:21 pm
I don’t see the point either. Looks are just that, only looks 🙂
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DotedOn said this on February 21, 2016 at 1:17 pm
Exactly , there’s far more to someone than the way they look.
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vinnieh said this on February 21, 2016 at 1:18 pm
Yes 🙂
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DotedOn said this on February 21, 2016 at 1:31 pm
And I think that if I posed like the top guy with just chocolates covering my member, a girl would be more inclined to run rather than pounce on me.
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vinnieh said this on February 19, 2016 at 6:28 pm
Well, that’s hard to tell. If my guy does that for me (ONLY for me), I think I’ll laugh and have a lot of fun. But any given guy doing that would make me only frown 🙂
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DotedOn said this on February 21, 2016 at 1:19 pm
That’s very true, I’m sure someone would laugh if I did it.
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vinnieh said this on February 21, 2016 at 1:19 pm