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Monday. Chapter 2.
Yesterday I spent over an hour “cleaning” my computer. I got rid of who knows how many files and pictures. I tidied up my desktop and even changed the background image. New beginnings.
I have never-ending lists of things I need to do and I promised myself I was going to do as much as I could and at least tick one item every day. I’m not sure how I’ll do that because today I woke up with no will.
I could choose to do something that it takes only a couple of minutes and get it done.
That will get the wheel turning. Maybe once I’m there I’ll feel better and do all the rest.
But I truly doubt it. That image comes to my mind and I’ll feel like I had entered a rat race and once I’m there it’ll be almost impossible to leave. I need a better example.
How the hell is one supposed to find the perfect balance? If you are like me, you know that’s not an easy task. When I HAVE TO do something it’s like starting off on the wrong foot. I need to WANT to do something or, very likely, it’s not going to happen.
The resistance I put against something I have to do is incredible. Either I convince myself it’s something I want to do or I just don’t do it.
Many years ago I read a book. I’m pretty sure it was “Chicken Soup For the Soul” but the Spanish translation was “Chocolate Caliente Para el Alma” (hot cocoa for the soul). Apparently, a cup of hot cocoa makes Spanish speaking people feel much better than chicken soup. I couldn’t tell, I’m vegetarian and I have issues with milk, so both of them are not good for me.
Anyway, there was a story there and I think it was the only story that got stuck with me. Do only what you want to do because that’s the only way you’ll be happy. And I have to agree.
I’ve been following that rule for almost 25 years. Many people could think I’m a spoiled brat. I don’t care. I’m the one who has to live with me. I know better than anyone else what’s good for me. I don’t need to please anyone to feel good and I can’t force myself to do something when I don’t want to do it.
I do what I want.
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DotedOn said this on April 18, 2016 at 11:16 am |
Hot cocoa for the soul…I like that!
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Marissa Bergen said this on April 18, 2016 at 6:20 pm |
I’d prefer double chocolate chip ice-cream, but ok… Maybe the whole idea is the warm feeling 🙂
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DotedOn said this on April 19, 2016 at 1:09 pm |
As long as it’s chocolate, I’ll take it!
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Marissa Bergen said this on April 19, 2016 at 10:38 pm
🙂
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DotedOn said this on April 20, 2016 at 12:47 pm
A thoughtful quotation.
🙂
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XandrewX said this on April 18, 2016 at 8:17 pm |
A bit hard, but I think it’s spot on. 🙂
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DotedOn said this on April 19, 2016 at 1:10 pm |
I have to admit I’m the same but it’s funny how one I get my ass in gear and start I lol seem to get things done …………….. not easy though! x
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XandrewX said this on April 18, 2016 at 8:57 pm |
Probably me too… Like a domino effect.
But I guess I just hated that rodent 😀
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DotedOn said this on April 19, 2016 at 1:11 pm |
Ok, that bottom poster made me laugh way too hard. Very apropos to the what you wrote too.
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R. Todd said this on April 19, 2016 at 5:47 am |
But, isn’t it true?
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DotedOn said this on April 19, 2016 at 1:15 pm |
It is.
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R. Todd said this on April 19, 2016 at 3:06 pm
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DotedOn said this on April 20, 2016 at 12:44 pm
great sentiment, do what you want, when you want, you choose! Hope your weeks going great. XX
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manyofus1980 said this on April 21, 2016 at 5:22 am |
Thank you! It’s been a long week… I’d like to say I’m glad it’s over… but it’s never over!! 🙂
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DotedOn said this on April 23, 2016 at 11:57 am |