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Thursday. I’m mad today and I’m not sure if I should write and spread the crap all around or if I should just keep it for myself and let it poison me.
Why is it so difficult for some people to understand that if you pass the limits, there could be consequences?
Don’t expect a person to keep quiet and accept all the crap that’s thrown on them.
Maybe some accept it. Not me.
If you do something I don’t like, then handle my reaction.
And let me tell you, it’s much better if I react immediately when I don’t like something. Because if I don’t, chances are that I’m accumulating.
Accumulating never leads to anything good. Because it’s like if I stop caring.
And once I do, you are dead to me.
Let me explain that better. If you keep doing things to me that you know I don’t like, I’ll interpret that as if you don’t give a f#$k about me. So when I stop giving a f#$k about you, don’t be surprised.
Writing always helps. Thanks for listening.
Take care, Paola.
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Jay said this on October 20, 2016 at 2:20 pm |
Thank you, Jay 🙂
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DotedOn said this on October 21, 2016 at 11:48 am |
Yes, some things are okay to let go but if that same kind of things keep happening over and over again, it’s time to speak up!
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Marissa Bergen said this on October 20, 2016 at 5:46 pm |
I always speak up. When I don’t, it means I don’t care anymore. And that’s sad! 🙂
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DotedOn said this on October 21, 2016 at 11:49 am |
It can hurt, but sometimes you have to let people go. Hope you feel better soon.
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Bradley said this on October 20, 2016 at 10:47 pm |
Thank you, Bradley 🙂
Letting go is not easy but sometimes it’s the only way 🙂
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DotedOn said this on October 21, 2016 at 11:51 am |
I get it, Paola. I get pushed pretty far, but once I’m pushed over that tipping point, depending on what the situation is and who the person is and what they’ve done, is whether or not that “dead to me” place can be miraculously brought back to life. Sometimes those toxic people need to stay “dead”!
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writersideup said this on October 22, 2016 at 3:18 am |
I agree completely. And I haven’t resuscitated anyone yet 😀
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DotedOn said this on October 23, 2016 at 9:30 pm |
awwww, you sound like someones really pushed your limits. Sending hugs! xxx
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manyofus1980 said this on October 22, 2016 at 4:46 pm |
Yes, they did! 🙂
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DotedOn said this on October 23, 2016 at 9:45 pm |