I went to the doctor and I didn’t hear what I wanted to hear. I need to go again for further examinations. I’m terrified. I hate waiting and I hate not knowing. I hate being alone here and I hate having to ask someone to drive me to the specialist next week. I was hating my Monday very much so I went to sleep really early. I had no idea that I could hate Tuesday almost twice as much. I had to clean and tidy up but I couldn’t do it. At 6.20pm I said to my kids: “I can’t deal with this day anymore, I’m going to bed”. Sometimes I really wonder who’s the parent in this house.
Anyway, something strange and kind of funny happened. One of those things that “could only happen to me”.

I woke up yesterday and found this e-mail:

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I read it a few times and wondered how could that be possible. Then I decided to answer: (and please excuse all the mistakes).

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I thought that my reply was going to be enough, but I was really surprised when I a couple of hours later I got another e-mail from the girl.

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I decided to answer.

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A couple of minutes later, another e-mail:

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Wow, straight to the point.
And my reply.

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And another e-mail minutes later.


so I replied.

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And another one.

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When I read this one I had to laugh really hard. I don’t think there is a person in this world who I hadn’t ask if they had a brother for me. This has to be a sign!

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How could I not answer!

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I must admit that I was expecting her replying 22.

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?? how can I answer to that?

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I couldn’t stop laughing.

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This one sounded strange but hey, widower is always better than married, right?

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Strange, right? But I’m glad that happened. it made me think in something else. Specially in the evening, I wasn’t sure how it was going to be. It turned out ok. I spent it taking screenshots of the e-mails and arranging the messages chronologically.
I asked my oldest kids to take care of the youngest ones because I couldn’t do it.

Later I ask my oldest son to get me some apple juice from the supermarket. When he came back, he gave me this:


He’s 14 and he already knows what to do. I’m so proud of him. I couldn’t eat the ice-cream though, my stomach hurt and I could barely eat dinner.

I went to sleep around 10.40pm, super glad that the day was almost gone.

I’ll be stressing the rest of the morning about all the things I didn’t do yesterday. My cousins should be here in a couple of hours.

~ by DotedOn on June 17, 2015.

11 Responses to “294”

  1. Reblogged this on SURVIVORS BLOG HERE.


  2. That is weird. When I first started reading, I thought it was spam, but then the details got a little too intimate for that. Hope all ends up will with the medical issues. Your son is sweet. That would have taken my worries away too…temporarily at least!

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  3. That is so odd! But so entertaining, too. So, are you moving to New York in the future? 😀

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  5. Twin
    I understand the confusion the contact, what does it matter if you’re gay? If you’re not she’s going to toss you over to her brother. Sounds like a pile of shit to me. I have an ice pick in the eye headache. Relax, I’ve been thru a doctor ramming all types in the V spot which I prefer to keep covered. Remember I went thru at 28. Email me when you can and give me the details.

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  6. I hope you are doing great. I have nominated you for the prestigious Liebster Award, please find the details here: https://4yearoldadult.wordpress.com/2015/06/19/leibster-award-3/
    Cheers 🙂


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